online datingIt’s wintertime and the lovin’ is easy. With a spike in online dating from November through February and more people keeping each other warm during the cold nights,  who better to guest star on ‘Dot Complicated with Randi Zuckerberg’ other than licensed sex therapist and host of TLC’s “All About Sex,” Dr. Tiffanie Davis Henry and online dating expert and digital matchmaker, Julie Spira!

 

DR. TIFFANIE

“I never thought I’d be a sex therapist. I didn’t know what I wanted to do as an undergrad. But I really loved to cook.”

“I didn’t see myself as someone who could or would be on TV even though in the deepest darkest parts of my heart I wanted to.”

“I took my first psychology class and totally failed. It was so much information.”

“I was a Women’s Studies minor and a light bulb went off.”

“Dr. Drew was big, Dr. Ruth was out. The whole field of sex therapy was going but nobody really knew about it.”

“People are always going to have mental issues and be sick, so if sex therapy didn’t work out I had a Masters in Psychology.”

“One of my first psych classes, the professor said people don’t get into this field to make money. I was thinking, ‘Bullsh*t!'”

“No psychiatrists wanted to talk about sex so those were the patients I got.”

“Create a niche for yourself. What are you doing that no one else is doing?”

“Tech has changed love, sex and intimacy for the good and for the bad.”

“We live in a world of tech, so embrace it.”

“No matter how bad the economy is, people will buy sex toys.”

“They have products that you can plug into your laptop.”

“Slip a lipstick sized vibrator into your bag and not let your kids know what it is.”

“Kinky Green came out of the desire to reinvent the sex toy market.”

“Off gas is something that’s in childrens’ toys and new cars. Think about putting those gasses into your vagina.”

“Parabens are linked to certain types of breast cancer. Why would I put that in my body?”

“If I’m going to recommend a product I want it to be something I would use myself.”

“All of my products are natural and organic with no batteries. They’re all rechargeable.”

“Sustainable products are glass. You can sterilize them. Or throw them in the dish washer.”

“I’ve never had someone say, “Oh no, I don’t want to use that.”

“Some topics in some communities remain taboo.”

“Women are starting to own their sexuality.”

“I don’t need a man, I got a hand. People are becoming more okay with that.”

“If you get a black woman behind closed doors, 99.998% of the time oral sex is on the menu and 80% of the time, so is masturbation.”

“I’ve had patients tell me the sex education they got at home was, “Don’t do it” or “don’t get pregnant.”

“The more we teach our kids about sex, the more they decide what they want and don’t want to explore.”

“There are so many women listening to this show just nodding their heads.”

“People are focused on their gadgets more than each other.”

“Give yourself time away from your phone. I put my phone in a completely different room.”

“I did the AVN Convention and one of the toys was something you could use overseas. I keep one at home, he takes one with him. I can put my mouth on one part and he can insert his penis and feel it. It was on The Big Bang Theory.”

“For couples, it’s and oldie but goodie: the We-Vibe.”

HOUZZ is my favorite app to design my house.”

HOME CHEF is my favorite app of 2015.”

“My daughter is 16 months old and tech savvy, she’s obsessed with Baby’s First Channel.”

 

JULIE SPIRA

“Don’t wait, initiate.”

“Sunday 1/3 is the busiest day of online dating. #DatingSunday is the busiest time of the year.”

“Holidays are the most emotional time of year. If you were with someone on Christmas but don’t want to be with them on New Years, this is your time to shine.”

“Digital matchmaking is going through the dating sites and picking who I think is their best match.”

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Join Dot Complicated with Randi Zuckerberg LIVE from the Toyota booth at the Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas on January 7th at 11am PT/2pm ET. Guests include Jeremy Kaplan of Digital Trends, RJ Wafer of DoubleRobotics, Martin-Luc Archambault of AmpMe, and James Pisz of Toyota!

 

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